What the Dance Floor Owes Me (And What It Doesn’t)

Finding freedom on the dance floor—and friendship somewhere else

Feb 15 • Tomik Dash

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Valentine's Day for the Terminally Single 💘

Journaling lakeside while straight couples wait for brunch

Feb 14 • Tomik Dash

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Fire Island Adonis

What the most beautiful man I've ever seen taught me about insecurity and belonging.

Feb 12 • Tomik Dash

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There Is No Excuse to Be Lonely in New York City

How I let the struggle become an excuse to disappear

Feb 8 • Tomik Dash

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The Traitors US Black Banquet: Ranking Every Look from Worst to Best

Ranking all 14 Black Banquet looks from Traitors US Season 3. From Tara's pedestrian club outfit to Lisa Rinna's Victorian showstopper. No mercy was…

Feb 5 • Tomik Dash

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December 2025

Heated Rivalry Made Me Horny—Then It Made Me Sad

Situationships, long timelines, and why it hit closer than expected

Dec 17, 2025 • Tomik Dash

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October 2025

Portal: The Unexpected Spaces Where We Find Ourselves

A personal essay on finding sanctuary, independence, and emotional escape in the unlikeliest places

Oct 11, 2025 • Tomik Dash

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August 2025

If My Life Were a Movie, What Would the Audience Yell?

Ambition, survival, and the consequence that forced me to listen.

Aug 25, 2025 • Tomik Dash

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The Gratitude Mistake That Took Me Two Years to Fix

Gratitude isn’t about noticing blessings — it’s about inhabiting them.

Aug 21, 2025 • Tomik Dash

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Cold Call the Homies

The Lost Art of Picking Up the Damn Phone

Aug 6, 2025 • Tomik Dash

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July 2025

Launching My Nonprofit Consulting Practice + New Fire Island Podcast

Life updates: Nonprofit Ignition launch, creative independence, and podcast partnership opportunities

Jul 10, 2025 • Tomik Dash

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April 2025

Mental Slumps Don’t Just Go Away. You Have to Climb Out.

How ritual didn’t fix me — but it reminded me who I was under the fog.

Apr 18, 2025 • Tomik Dash

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